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Where Do I Go From Here?

    Many times we are going through life and we come to a place where we don't know where to turn. We are not sure what the next step is or how to figure it out. This can prove to be a very frustrating time for most of us. So what is the right approach in those times?

    The first thing you should be doing is praying. Ask Jesus to show you the next step He has for you. Talk to Him about how you're feeling and then listen for His response.

Luke 11:9 And I tell you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. (ESV)

    When you've asked the Lord, wait on Him for the answer. And when I say wait, it may be a while before you hear from Him. Be patient in this time and trust that He will answer your prayers. Just be alert and stay focused on Him, and you'll discern what He has for you. This is the hardest part of the process, as it is a huge step of faith. Do not worry about how long you may be waiting, but trust that Jesus has this figured out.

Lamentations 3:25 The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. (ESV)

Habakkuk 2:3 For still the vision awaits its appointed time; it hastens to the end—it will not lie. If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will not delay. (ESV)

    When you feel like you have a definitive answer, check it against the word. Jesus will never guide you to do anything that does not align with scripture. Do your research and pray further about it until you are able to rightly discern the validity of the answer you've received. If you are still unsure, seek godly counsel with your fellow believers and see what they think.

    When you aren't sure of where you are going, relax. It is okay to be unsure. Simply pray and rest in the Lord until you get an answer. Don't freak out but instead keep your eyes focused on the one who has it all figured out already. His plans for you are good.

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (NIV)

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